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Newsletter 08-16

Greetings from Penshurst Rectory,

August in the parish remains reasonably quiet. There are a steady stream of visitors passing through our churches and villages. We are so blessed to live and worship in this beautiful corner of Kent. The improved weather continues; it was certainly a very warm day for Lara and Seb’s wedding at All Souls Chapel in Poundsbridge last Saturday. Who knew that 110 people could be fitted into such a small space?! We have ten further marriage services left this year, with 19 marriage services already booked for the 2025 and 2026 seasons. Thank you for making couples feel so welcome as they attend church to make their qualifying connections with us.

This week I began preparing candidates for confirmation in late September. It is not too late to sign up for the next series of confirmation classes. Please drop me an e mail if you are thinking of taking this step in faith. The service will be in Tonbridge on the evening of 29th September.

This week many people received A level results, and GCSE results land this Thursday coming. Warm congratulations to those who have secured the grades they need for the next stage. We pray for our families preparing for their youngsters to attend college, university or the world of work in the weeks ahead.

We will say farewell to Rev’d Lindsay at an evening prayer service at St Peter’s Fordcombe at 6pm on Sunday. Wine and nibbles will be served afterwards. Sunday is Lindsay’s last working day after a little under two years working as our Associate Priest. We wish her and her family every blessing as they move away to pastures new.

I remain Rector of all of our parishes, and the third anniversary of my licensing service is next month. I share The Cure of Souls with the Bishop of Rochester and my care for you extends across the whole community, whether you are churchgoers or not. My Sunday morning ministry is being assisted by The Rev’d Penny Stephens and she is leading worship in The Chiddingstone Churches when available. Occasional offices (Weddings, Baptism and Funerals) remain my responsibility, as does my pastoral care for you all.

Service patterns and content continue to be coordinated across the benefice churches so that music, scripture and liturgy are themed with the lectionary used across The Church of England. Going forward other ministers with permission to officiate will be helping me out on some Sundays, and when I am away from the parish. Please direct any enquiries around services, pastoral or prayer support to me directly or via Tabby in the Office. Email is the most reliable way to be in touch.

Wishing you a blessed week ahead.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 18 August: Trinity 12

1000      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000      Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

1800      Choral Evensong at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 25 August: Trinity 13

1000     Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 1 September

1000     Holy Communion at St John’s, Penshurst

1000     Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

To download a full overview of August services please Click Here.      

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their life events:

Weddings: last week we married Lara and Sebestian at Poundsbridge, and later this month will welcome James and Alice, James and Emily; and Rachel and Todd to celebrate their marriages. We hold them in our prayers.

Christenings: We wish Isabelle, Emily and Charlotte and their families well on their pilgrimage of faith, as they approach their upcoming baptisms.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer and Stewart Tucker, and their families, in our prayers and will update on details for both funerals in the coming weeks.

And we remember those whose anniversary falls at this time of year, they shall be prayed for in church on Sunday.   

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter 08-09

Greetings from Penshurst Rectory. It has been a relatively quiet week in the parish but this is in great contrast to events in many of our towns and cities. In a letter to The Times on Tuesday, UK faith leaders wrote: “Every British citizen has a right to be respected and a responsibility to respect others, so that together we can build a cohesive and harmonious society for all. As faith leaders, we salute the many people who have stepped forward to repair damage and restore their neighbourhoods.”  Let us pray for peace wherever there is conflict and for those living in fear to be assured of God’s love through times of difficulty. May we each in our own communities follow the teachings of Micah and do justly, to love mercy and walk humbly with our God [Micah 6:8].

In church this weekend we congratulate Seb and Lara who will be married on Saturday afternoon at Poundsbridge. I left the rehearsal just as teams of flower arrangers were descending to decorate the chapel. I am really looking forward to the All Souls wedding experience.

Our worship this week is centred on Fordcombe and from that community we hold the family of Stewart Tucker in prayer. Mr Tucker’s died earlier this week. Funeral details will follow once they are known.

The Joint Council will be meeting this Thursday evening. Please let your wardens know if there any local matters you would like them to raise on your behalf.

In this edition

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

 

Services:

Sunday 11 August: Trinity 11

1000     Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 18 August: Trinity 12

1000      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000      Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

Sunday 25 August: Trinity 13

1000     Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

 To download a full overview of August services please Click Here.       

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their life events:

Upcoming weddings: in August we will marry Lara and Sebestian, James and Alice, James and Emily; and Rachel and Todd. We hold them in our prayers.

Christenings: We wish Isabelle, Emily and Charlotte and their families well on their pilgrimage of faith, as they approach their upcoming baptisms.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer and Stewart Tucker, and their families, in our prayers and will update on details for both funerals in the coming weeks.

And we remember those whose anniversary falls at this time of year, they shall be prayed for in church on Sunday. 

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 08-02

Dear Parishioners,

I hope you have all had a good week. It has, at last, felt like summer for some of the time. I have, between working, very much enjoyed being an armchair athlete and impressed by the talents shown by Olympic competitors. In the book of Hebrews our journey of faith is described as “running with perseverance the race marked out for us.” I can only imagine how hard individuals and teams have toiled over years to be at their peak performance in Paris. The Olympics, of course, exist to promote values as well as skills. The IOC website summarises Olympian values as:

  • Striving for excellence and encouraging people to be the best they can be

  • Demonstrating respect in many different manners: respect towards yourself, the rules, your opponents, the environment, the public, etc

  • Celebrating friendship, which is quite unique to the Olympic Games – an event that brings people together every few years.

I am not sure we need to don sports clothing to live these values in our everyday life. Our New Testament Epistle on Sunday concludes with a command for believers to build up the body of Christ in love. I can think of no better values to promote in our church family and beyond.

What a busy week I have had. I have baptised one of the youngest in our church family, Charlotte, and laid to rest one of the oldest, Shirley. In between I have had very upbeat conversations with wedding couples for this year and next, been on pastoral visits and completed the first half of my safeguarding leadership training. With lots of study and paperwork behind the scenes too, I can never say that The Rector’s role is dull.

On Saturday I will be away from the parish working as volunteer Duty Priest in St Paul’s Cathedral; a role I carry out 3 or 4 times a year. It is such an honour to lead prayers and The Eucharist under the dome of the cathedral and always so interesting to meet with the rich variety of people who come into the cathedral’s care across the day.

On Sunday I look forward to leading Holy Communion at St John the Baptist in Penshurst and we welcome Rev’d Penny Stephen’s to lead at St Mary’s. Both services are at 1000. In the afternoon I shall be at Poundsbridge with the family of Pamela Hazeldine, laying her ashes to rest. Next Saturday I shall be officiating at Seb and Lara’s wedding in Poundsbridge Chapel. My first in this setting since my appointment three years ago and my first ever wedding by special license in my six years of ordained ministry.  

Please keep Sunday 18th August at 6pm in your diaries for Rev’d Lindsay’s final service of Sung Evensong.

I look forward to seeing many of you in church and around the villages in the week ahead.

In this edition

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

 Services:

Sunday 4 August: Trinity 10

1000    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000    Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

Sunday 11 August: Trinity 11

1000     Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 18 August: Trinity 12

1000      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000      Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

To download a full overview of August services please Click Here.      

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their life events:

Upcoming weddings: in August we will marry Lara and Sebastian, James and Alice, James and Emily; and Rachel and Todd. We hold them in our prayers.

Christenings: We wish Isabelle, Emily and Charlotte and their families well on their pilgrimage of faith, as they approach their upcoming baptisms.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer in our prayers. A much-loved minister in Chiddingstone, who will be missed by many. Her funeral is on 13th September and we will update the details when they have been signed off.

And we remember those whose anniversary falls at this time of year, they shall be prayed for in church on Sunday. 

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing:

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 07-26

Dear Parishioners,

I write this at the end of a mercifully warm and sunny day. It is fair to say there has been a lot of weather in recent weeks. Clearly it is good for my lawn, which seems to be growing at the rate of a triffid this week.

On Tuesday it was lovely to see the Fordcombe School family in St Peter’s church for their Y6 leavers service. I am glad to see the children off to pastures new with confidence and a firm foundation that should mean they experience a smooth transition in September. Meanwhile my social media accounts are flooded with pictures of other people’s holidays, which I am enjoying vicariously. (No pun intended).

Last weekend Fergus was baptised at Poundsbridge Chapel, and on Sunday Charlotte will be baptised in St John the Baptist in Penshurst. We wish these children every blessing as they and their loved ones journey together in faith. Of course, my job as Rector sees me alongside families at all stages of life and it will be my honour to lead the funeral for Shirley Jenner from Fordcombe next Friday. The service is at The Kent and Sussex Crematorium at 1130.

In recent newsletters I have mentioned the recent death of Rev’d Jean Lorimer. Jean served for ten years as an associate priest in Chiddingstone and was much loved by the community. A memorial service for Jean will be on Friday September 13th at St Mary’s Chiddingstone. Some details are still being finalised and I will update you as plans become firmer.

On Sunday we have two services in the morning, both at 1000. Rev’d Penny Stephens will lead a service in St Mary’s, and I shall be presiding at St Peter’s. Also, there is a service of Evening Prayer at Poundsbridge Chapel at 6pm. Please join me for a service from the Book of Common Prayer. We will sing some traditional hymns and enjoy the beautiful surroundings. At past Poundsbridge services many people have combined their visit to the chapel with a dog walk. Your furry friends are most welcome to join us for the service. Water is available for their refreshment, but please bring a suitable bowl!

A reminder that Rev’d Lindsay’s final service with us will be Evensong at St Peter’s, Fordcombe at 6pm on Sunday August 18th. Please do come to say farewell.

In this edition

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing

Services:

Sunday 28th July: Trinity 9

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

6pm      Evening Prayer at All Souls Chapel, Poundsbridge

Sunday 4 August: Trinity 10

1000    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000    Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone 

Sunday 11 August: Trinity 11

1000    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

To download a full overview of July and August services please Click Here.   

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their life events:

Upcoming weddings: in July we married Amy and Richard, and hold them in our prayers as they begin their journey in marriage.

Christenings: This week we will baptise Charlotte, we wish her and her family well on this pilgrimage of faith.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer and Shirley Jenner in our prayers ahead of their upcoming funerals.  

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving, their names will be read during service on Sunday. Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 07-19

To our benefice friends,

I write on a warm day in Penshurst, what a treat! This was a busy week in all of our local schools with school productions, leavers’ services in church, and all sorts of celebrations. It is such an honour to be asked to speak at services offering our leavers a few words of wisdom. Fordcombe have their final service early on Tuesday.

This weekend we have a service of Holy Communion in Penshurst at 1000, to which you are all most welcome. We will also be baptising Felix in Poundsbridge Chapel at the end of the morning and we pray for him and his loved ones as he begins his journey of faith.

During the week two projects, which have been a long time in the planning, were completed. The preparation work to bring water to Fordcombe church has taken place. This church has had no running water since being built in 19th Century but now, amongst other benefits, cleaning will be easier and we will soon be able to baptise babies without using bottled water! We have a small team planning for a loo to be built, and in the medium term some kitchen facilities. Thank you to Roger and Angela for much background work.  

In Penshurst, the louvres on the bell tower have been replaced in several sections. This will help the tower be more weatherproof as we begin our project to restore the bells within. Thank you to all of you who volunteer to maintain our church fabric and grounds across five church buildings and several church yards. With a special mention to Christine and Simon, who do so much work keeping St Mary’s ship shape! You are all stars!

Following the recent death of our friend Rev’d Jean Lorimer we have placed a book of condolence in St Luke’s Church. The church is open every day, and the book will be brought to St Mary’s on Sundays when there is a service there. Jean has left clear instructions for a rousing send off. For an assortment of reasons, the date for celebrating Jean’s life is yet to be confirmed. As soon as the arrangements are finalised, we will share them.

With every blessing for the week ahead,

Lisa

In this edition

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

 Services:

Sunday 21st July: Trinity 8

10am    Holy Communion, St John the Baptist, Penshurst

Sunday 28th July: Trinity 9

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 4 August: Trinity 10

1000    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

1000    Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

To download a full overview of July and August services please Click Here.

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their life events:

Upcoming weddings: in July we married Amy and Richard, and hold them in our prayers as they begin their journey in marriage.

Christenings: This week we will baptise Fergus, followed by Charlotte next weekend, we wish them and their families well on this pilgrimage of faith.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer in our prayers. A much-loved minister in Chiddingstone, who will be missed by many. We will update you with further details on the funeral in due course.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving:

20-Jul

21-Jul

Valentine Patrick Fleming

22-Jul

William James Ellson
Doris Charlotte Dalton

23-Jul

24-Jul

25-Jul

Ena Aitchison

26-Jul

 Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 07-13

To our benefice friends,

I hope that you have all had a good week. We seem to have had all of the seasons in the last few days. I am sure it is good for the garden, if not our mood! As our local schools move into the last week of term we have several performances of school plays, leavers’ events and end of term services across the benefice. I look forward to welcoming many families to church this week, or catching up with you in school.

On Tuesday, about 300 people gathered in St John the Baptist church in Penshurst for the funeral of Clint French. A long-time participant in shooting at Penshurst Place and well known in the world of field sports, Clint was given a rousing send off in a service led by Rev’d Simon Rowlands, the Vicar of Faversham.

The late notification of Jean Lorimer’s death meant that I was not able to pay proper tribute to her in last week’s mailing. Jean was a really lovely lady and incredibly precious to the people of Chiddingstone to whom she ministered. She was part of the first wave of ordained women in our diocese. Jean had a rock-solid faith and a heart for pastoral ministry. After some years of deteriorating health, we give thanks that Jean is now at rest in the arms of her heavenly father. No funeral arrangements have been shared with me yet, but I will make them known once the information reaches me. I hope someone close to her might write a fuller obituary for Jean ready for the August magazine deadline next week.

Rev’d Lindsay has been serving on General Synod this week. A busy agenda with long debates and much information to process. Excitement in the Chid Rectory also surrounded exam results.  We send congratulations to Morgan for his IB results. His excellent scores means that he can begin his degree apprenticeship in September. And finally, Lindsay’s final service in the benefice will be evensong at St Peter’s Fordcombe at 6pm on Sunday August 18th.

With every blessing for the week ahead.

Lisa

In this edition

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 14th July: Trinity 7

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 21st July: Trinity 8

10am    Holy Communion, St John the Baptist, Penshurst

 Sunday 28th July: Trinity 9

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

To download a full overview of July and August services please Click Here.

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: on Saturday we married Amy and Richard, and hold them in our prayers as they begin their journey in marriage.

Christenings: We will baptise Fergus and Charlotte in July, and wish them well on this pilgrimage of faith.

Funerals: We continue to hold the late Jean Lorimer and her family in our prayers. A much-loved minister in Chiddingstone, who will be missed by many. We will update you with further details on the funeral in due course.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving:

13-Jul

14-Jul

Florence Constance (Poppy) Jenner
Alan Ewan Donald

15-Jul

Ellen Annie Matkins

16-Jul

Arthur Pearson
Walter (Wally) Henry Leppard
Joan Wilks

17-Jul

18-Jul

Gillian Muriel Killingbeck

19-Jul

Ronald James Bassett

 

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 07-06

To our benefice friends,

A week of many changes. A new government after a six-week election campaign bookended with heavy rainfall. Whether the election result is personally pleasing or more of a worry, perhaps we might give thanks that we live with the freedom to cast our votes and have a say in who can lead our government. I pray for a smooth transition in Westminster and give thanks for all those who are prepared to offer themselves for public service. I pray for the safety of our politicians and public servants and for our nation to flourish under their care.

Last Sunday many enjoyed the traditional fete in The Causeway. Thank you to all involved. I was in Rochester for the weekend, and joined many others in celebrating the 30th anniversary of women’s ordination in The Church of England. On Thursday many gathered in my rectory garden for a tea party to mark Rev’d Lindsay’s 25 years ordained. The weather was kind and the gathering gave a chance to celebrate all that is good in ministry and friendship. Thank you to all who provided sandwiches and sweet treats.

Today, there is a wedding in Chiddingstone for Amy and Richard. We pray for their happiness and a long and happy marriage. Tomorrow there are two Holy Communion services. Rev’d Lisa will lead worship in Penshurst and Rev’d Penny in Chiddingstone. In Penshurst there is a funeral in Penshurst at 1pm for Clinton French. Parking is provided in Church Field.

I am so sorry to announce the death of Rev'd Jean Lorimer a few days ago. Jean was amongst the early generation of female parish priests and was much loved in Chiddingstone where she ministered with great compassion. She lived out her latter years at The College of St Barnabas in Lingfield and had many regular visits from her friends in the parish.

May she rest in peace and rise in glory. As soon as we know more about funeral details we will share those with you. I offer my deepest condolence to all who knew and loved Jean.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Sunday 7th July: Trinity 6

10am     Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am     Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

Sunday 14th July: Trinity 7

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Sunday 21st July: Trinity 8

10am    Holy Communion, St John the Baptist, Penshurst

 

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors this month to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: in July we will be marrying Amy and Richard, and hold them in our prayers as they approach their wedding day.

Christenings: We will baptise Fergus and Charlotte in July, and wish them well on this pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving:

06-Jul

John Brodie Thomson Hall
Olive Knudsen
Cameron McIlwham

07-Jul

John William Everest

08-Jul

09-Jul

Robert Alexander Stephen
Albert Henry (Jack) Dalton

10-Jul

Cecil Eric Everest

11-Jul

12-Jul

Sonia Dorothy Gullifer
Tom Godfrey Faussett

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 06 -29

To our benefice friends,

A slightly shorter update this week, after a busy few days for me. Thursday was another full-day training session, followed by the Bishop of Rochester’s annual summer garden party. Both were welcome opportunities to congregate with clergy from other parishes.

Thankfully, after a warm spell, we have welcomed the (somewhat late) arrival of summer. The sunshine has emerged just in time for a number of events taking place across the parish. In addition to a flurry of weddings this weekend, Chiddingstone will be celebrating their summer fete, in the Causeway from 2pm; please do come down to support.

Speaking of support, I would like to extend a huge thanks to all of those who attended the working group at Poundsbridge last Saturday, and for your help in maintaining the beautiful space surrounding the chapel.

And I once again thank Rev Penny Stephens, who will be stepping in to lead service at St Mary’s from this Sunday. I shall be away from 29 June to 2 July, but should you have any questions, or require anything please do contact the office.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Sunday 30th June: Trinity 5

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe. Led by Rev’d Penny Stephens

Sunday 7th July: Trinity 6

10am     Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am     Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

Sunday 14th July: Trinity 7

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe

         

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: we welcome Harry and Nicole, and Matt and Katie through our doors and wish them well for their upcoming weddings.

Christenings: We baptised Augustin in June, and wish him well on his pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

29-Jun

30-Jun

01-Jul

Roy Slack

Sally Mundy

James Stutely Allwood

02-Jul

03-Jul

Mary Huntley

04-Jul

Alice Louise Slack

Douglas Frank Hunt

05-Jul

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Events:

 

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 06-22

To our benefice friends,

Following on from the Bishop of Rochester’s announcement last week, we have had many kind messages of thanks for all of Lindsay’s hard work in previous years, and expressing how she’ll be sorely missed. While she’ll be setting off on the next chapter of her journey we shall of course remain in contact, and I hope to see many of you at the upcoming celebration of Lindsay’s 25th year since ordination at Penshurst rectory on 4 July at 3pm.

With Lindsay moving to pastures new we have adapted the service programme accordingly; working closely with the Archdeacon on a schedule, agreed by the Joint Council, we have ensured at least one, if not two, 10am services will be available to attend each week across the three parishes. More details can be found below, and will be added to the website in due course. In St Mary’s, the Revered Penny Stephens will be covering the next three months of Sunday services and we welcome and thank her for her assistance.

Elsewhere in the benefice it has been a very busy few weeks, with several training sessions taking place earlier in the month, from safeguarding to intercessions courses, which we were pleased to see some of you attending. We also had the Quiet Day on Tuesday, kindly hosted by Barbara Lloyd, which was a useful opportunity to pray and reflect together.

A working party will meet at Poundsbridge on Saturday, if you are available and willing we’d be very grateful for your support in maintaining the churchyard there. This will be just a two-hour session, 1000- noon, in order to keep the beautiful site looking its best. Evening Prayer services resume at Poundsbridge in late July. Dogs as well as humans are most welcome. Details to follow.

I’m also thrilled to see numerous fundraising efforts taking place across the benefice in the coming weeks with so many of you lending your time and talents to support the upkeep of the churches and our community initiatives. Following on from the enormously successful piano concerts at St John’s, we have the upcoming church and village fetes in the Chiddingstones; please do come along to what should be very enjoyable afternoons, which present an opportunity to meet as a community and support one another. The first taking place next Sunday 30 June 2-4:30pm.

Rev’d Lisa will be on leave between June 29th and 1st July. Please direct any urgent enquiries to Tabby our administrator who will be able to direct you to the most appropriate help. 

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 23rd June: Trinity 4

10am    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

5pm      All Age Service, Fordcombe Village Hall

Sunday 30th June: Trinity 5

10am    Holy Communion at St Peter’s, Fordcombe. Led by Rev’d Penny Stephens.

Sunday 7th July: Trinity 6

10am     Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am     Holy Communion at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone       

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: Tom and Izzy, Harry and Nicole; and Matt and Katie through our doors and wish them well for their upcoming weddings.

Christenings: We baptised Augustin in June, and wish him well on his pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

22-Jun

Delia Johnson

23-Jun

John Spencer Cutler 

24-Jun

Peter Winter
Winifred Young

25-Jun

26-Jun

27-Jun

Albert Henry Gribble

28-Jun

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Events:

Poundsbridge Working Group

We’re forming a working group to conduct basic maintenance on the church land at All Soul’s Chapel, Poundsbridge on Saturday 22 June. Please do come along and lend a hand if you can, we will be taking no longer than two hours.

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. And following the appointment of our new benefice Safeguarding Officer, Wendy Ellis, we now have a contact email established – please direct any safeguarding queries or issues to safeguarding@highwealdchurches.org.uk

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa

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Newsletter - 06-14

We have a number of upcoming dates for your diary for the coming week. On Saturday the Intercessor Training session will be taking place at Penshurst church, we do hope to see some of you there. Then on Tuesday there will be the Quiet Day, kindly hosted by Barbara Lloyd. All details for both events are included below.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing

Services:

Sunday 16th June

8am      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary’s, Chiddingstone

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: Tom and Izzy, Harry and Nicole; and Matt and Katie will be marrying in the benefice in the coming weeks, and we wish them well for their special days.

Christenings: We baptised Augustin in June, and wish him well on his pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving: 

15-Jun

16-Jun

Elsie Lorimer

17-Jun

18-Jun

Adeline Maud Coy

19-Jun

Marion Reilt Latten

20-Jun

21-Jun

Joyce J Theobald
Elizabeth Kentish
Catherine Kentish
Emma Kentish

22-Jun

Delia Johnson

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Intercessions Training

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed, just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.

Safeguarding Training

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online. We will begin at 1230pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend.

Events:

Quiet Day

We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for our use.

We will meet for coffee at 0930 and the focus will be different styles of prayer. Anybody who would like to join in a time of quiet reflection would be most welcome. Those attending the intercessions training may find this a helpful time to reflect. We plan to finish at 1230. Please let Lisa know if you would like to take part in this day rector@highwealdchurches.org.uk

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pm at Rochester Cathedral

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full details and opening times click here

Mailing:

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

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Newsletter - 06-07

To our benefice friends,

We have a slightly shorter newsletter this week as your clergy have been very busy with learning and development. Lisa was out to undergo several days of training under her new role as Area Dean, which provides a very exciting opportunity for her and the benefice more broadly. Learning and training is somewhat of a theme for this newsletter, and both Lindsay and Lisa will be undergoing further safeguarding training on domestic violence next week, with further parish training taking based locally.

Throughout June we have a number of sessions taking place across the benefice, to which all are welcome; these include intercessors training and a follow-up on safeguarding. We also have our quiet day later in the month, so we can reflect and grow together. We hope to see many of you there over the coming weeks, please see below for more details.

As we are now well and truly into wedding season, and the summer appears to have finally arrived, this time of year is filled with happy occasions. This week was no different with the Archdeacon’s Visit taking place on Wednesday; the service welcomed 101 worshippers from across the archdeaconry, many thanks to all who attended for your display of support for your clergy and wardens.

Please, as always, do keep in touch with us with any feedback on the current service programme, we welcome your thoughts and suggestions. And there remain a number of vacant Joint Council positions, if you’re interested in getting involved more formally, we encourage you to speak to the clergy, or contact the office.

In this edition:

 

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Sunday 9th June

10am   Sung Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

6pm     Holy Communion at St Peter's, Fordcombe

Sunday 16th June

8am      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary’s, Chiddingstone

Sunday 23rd June

10am    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

4pm      Forest Church, Penshurst Rectory

5pm      All Age Service, Fordcombe Village Hall

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: Brandon and Rianna, Tom and Izzy, Harry and Nicole; and Matt and Katie through our doors and wish them well for their upcoming weddings.

Christenings: We baptised Augustin in June, and wish him well on his pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

08-Jun

Joy Wisdom

09-Jun

Philip Anthony Corby

10-Jun

11-Jun

12-Jun

John Austin Cole

13-Jun

Pauline Margaret Winter

14-Jun

Edwin Ginger Meade

08-Jun

Joy Wisdom

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Courses:

Intercessions Training

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most Sundays’ prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.

Safeguarding Training

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online. We will begin at 1245pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend.

Events:

Quiet Day: We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for our use.

We will meet for coffee at 0930 and the focus will be different styles of prayer. Anybody who would like to join in a time of quiet reflection would be most welcome. Those attending the intercessions training may find this a helpful time to reflect. We plan to finish at 1230. Please let Lisa know if you would like to take part in this day rector@highwealdchurches.org.uk

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon.

Ø  And remember, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter - 06 - 01

To our benefice friends,

We had a lovely occasion this week, as Anne Godfrey Fausett turned 90 and celebrated with a tea party enjoyed by friends and family across the benefice. Elsewhere, the weather hampered some of our plans, but Lindsay took a short break in Dublin, which gave her the opportunity to discuss how the cathedral there engages with their visitors, and offered food for thought regarding our buildings that offer such an opportunity to encourage the spirituality of those passing through. If anyone wants to think collectively about this, do get in touch with Lindsay or the office.

As ever, we try and work collaboratively across the benefice, so let us have any feedback on the current order of service. We’ll be looking to have a review of the past year’s worship in the early autumn, which should include a review of the new pattern of services. A draft of these is currently being considered by members of the Joint Council and will be published more widely in the days ahead.  

We’re also looking for help working to reduce our carbon footprint, and to make our finances more sustainable through fundraising. We still need a couple of people for our Joint Council, so please think hard about whether you can offer the benefice a handful of hours a month from your skills and passions.

A reminder of the intercessions training coming up in June. This is aimed both at our established intercessors, who will have the opportunity to share good practice, and anyone who’d like to take up the ministry. It’s followed by a quiet day during the following week, so we can reflect and grow together. See below for more details.

On Wednesday we’re hosting one of the Archdeaconry’s Visitation services, at which all the Churchwardens across the Archdeaconry must hear the Archdeacon’s Charge to them and to make their solemn undertaking, as Churchwardens and lay officers of the Bishop, to discharge “… their duties as assigned to them by canon law [as] foremost in representing the laity, and in cooperating with the incumbent.  They are to use their best endeavours, both by personal example and precept, to encourage the parishioners in true religion and to promote unity and peace among them.” Come and support Angie, Karen and Paul as they make their promises!

Finally, an advanced notice of another upcoming, happy, occasion: this summer we celebrate Lindsay’s 25th year since ordination and will be holding an afternoon tea to mark the occasion. This will take place on Thursday 4th July at 3pm and will be hosted by Lisa in her Rectory Garden. We hope to see many of you there.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Sunday 2nd June

8am     Morning Prayer at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone 

10am   Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

Wednesday 5th June

8pm    Archdeacon’s Visitation service at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

Sunday 9th June

10am   Sung Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

6pm     Holy Communion at St Peter's, Fordcombe

Sunday 16th June

8am      Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am    Holy Communion at St Mary’s, Chiddingstone

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Ashley and Olivia’s wedding on Saturday 1st June.

Upcoming weddings: Brandon and Rianna, Tom and Izzy, Harry and Nicole; and Matt and Katie through our doors and wish them well for their upcoming weddings.

Upcoming Christenings: We will be baptising Augustin in June, and wish him well on this pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

01-Jun

John Churchill

02-Jun

Douglas Eade
Doris Eleanor Broad

03-Jun

Rosemary Scott                                                               
Charles Tolliday
Donald Mitchell McLauchlan-Clark
Henry Freddie Foy
Keneth Ernest Glover

04-Jun

William Arthur Roberts

05-Jun

06-Jun

07-Jun

Bob Pedlar

08-Jun

Joy Wisdom

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Courses:

Intercessions Training

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most Sundays’ prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.

Safeguarding Training

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online. We will begin at 1245pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend.

Orthodox spirituality and the Jesus prayer 
28 May 2024,10am to 3pm at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling More info

Events:

Quiet Day: We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for our use.

We will meet for coffee at 0930 and the focus will be different styles of prayer. Anybody who would like to join in a time of quiet reflection would be most welcome. Those attending the intercessions training may find this a helpful time to reflect. We plan to finish at 1230. Please let Lisa know if you would like to take part in this day rector@highwealdchurches.org.uk

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon.

Ø  And remember, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter - 05-24

To our Benefice Friends

After last weekend’s glorious weather, it’s been a bit hit or miss this week... I hope nobody got quite as wet as our Prime Minister!

Both of your clergy have been quite education-focused this week. Both Lisa and Lindsay have been taking assemblies, and Lisa has been doing her governance work with the schools. They have also begun planning our upcoming intercessions training day (see below). Lindsay has also been assisting with some of the Bishop’s Certificate students in the Diocese.

Wedding preparation continues apace. Although we’re quieter this year than last, by some measure, we still have a good many wedding couples and it’s a real joy to walk with them through this exciting time – and hopefully ease some of their (natural) anxiety!

Finally, Lindsay has completed her safeguarding training (leadership) this week. It’s been really interesting and useful training, which hopefully the Joint Council can discuss together as we all renew our learning. The safeguarding team, both nationally and locally, are constantly reviewing and updating their training, so although Lindsay has been taking this course every three to five years for the last 25 years it has never been quite the same each year (although the general guidance has, of course, been consistent!). It is fascinating to observe how it has changed and adapted over the years.

Do please consider – even if it’s not required of you – taking the Basic Safeguarding Training provided by the Church of England so that, together, we can develop a culture in this church that proactively safeguards as a community.

Finally, we hope that students enjoy the half term break, and we wish all families good quality time in the week, or two weeks, ahead.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 26 May

8am    Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

10am  Morning Prayer with Christening at St Mary’s, Chiddingstone

5pm    All Age at Fordcombe Village Hall

Sunday 2nd June

8am     Morning Prayer at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone 

10am   Holy Communion at St John the Baptist, Penshurst

Sunday 9th June

10am   Sung Matins at St Mary the Virgin, Chiddingstone

6pm     Holy Communion at St Peter's, Fordcombe

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

Upcoming weddings: In June we welcome Ashley and Olivia, Brandon and Rianna, Tom and Izzy; and Harry and Nicole through our doors and wish them well for their upcoming weddings.

Upcoming Christenings: We will be baptising Rosie and Augustin in the coming weeks, and wish them well on their pilgrimage of faith.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

19-May

Margaret Bishop
Albert Thomas Firminger

20-May

21-May

Harold Alfred Huntley
Joan Frances Allen

22-May

Evelyn Violet Hook
May Victoria Bassett

23-May

Eileen Vicary
John (Dick) Reardon

24-May

Peter Richard Benton

25-May

Eileen Alice Stanton

26-May

27-May

28-May

29-May

William Bernard Roberts

30-May

Raymond Charles Medhurst

31-May

01-Jun

John Churchill

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Courses:

Intercessions Training

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most Sundays’ prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.

Safeguarding Training

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online. We will begin at 1245pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend.

Orthodox spirituality and the Jesus prayer 
28 May 2024,10am to 3pm at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling More info

Events:

Quiet Day: We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for our use.

We will meet for coffee at 0930 and the focus will be different styles of prayer. Anybody who would like to join in a time of quiet reflection would be most welcome. Those attending the intercessions training may find this a helpful time to reflect. We plan to finish at 1230. Please let Lisa know if you would like to take part in this day rector@highwealdchurches.org.uk

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon.

Ø  And remember, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing,

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter - 05-17

To our Benefice Friends

Our three benefice schools have all been involved in SATS tests this week. We hope they have gone well and the Y6 pupils enjoy the precious last weeks of learning before transitioning to secondary school. Upcoming residentials and school plays will, we hope, bring much joy. Thank you to all of the school staff who work so hard to support our young people for all aspects of their education.

Older students have this week finished the International Baccalaureate exams, with those taking A levels and GCSEs just starting. For all people preparing for summer exams our prayers go with you.

And this week both Revs went back to the classroom to be ‘grilled’ by Y2 and Y5 classes in Chiddingstone School. Searching questions were asked and they enjoyed the opportunity to talk about our faith with local children and to help them think about the similarities and differences between Christians and followers of other world religions.

As far as our own learning is concerned, do read about the courses and events listed at the bottom of this bulletin. Locally, we’re running a training day for our intercessors (those who lead the prayers after the creed on Sundays), which is open both to established intercessors, and the intercession curious. After, we have another local safeguarding session for anyone who wants or needs to get some baseline training, so that we can make our congregations as safe as possible. We’re also holding our first quiet day for some time.

Visiting ministers

Over the next few months, we will be welcoming various lay and ordained ministers and ministers in training to some of our Sunday services and weddings. They may be there to compare us to their training parish; or be with us to build their experience in leading, preaching or intercession within services. Sometimes they will be robed and up front and at other times simply sitting in the congregation taking notes. Please make them welcome as they develop in their vocational calling alongside our church family.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 19th May: Pentecost

10am Sung Holy Communion                         St John the Baptist

10am Sung Holy Communion                         St Mary the Virgin

Sunday 26th of May: Trinity Sunday

8am   Holy Communion                                  St John the Baptist

10am  Morning Prayer with Christening          St Mary the Virgin

5pm All Age Service*.                                    Fordcombe Village Hall

*Please support Angela Ventin as she crafts and leads this service as part of her training for Lay Ministry                               

Life Events:

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

This month we have already had all of our wedding and wedding celebrations, but we continue to pray for William & Rachel, Rory & Hayley, Deborah and Neil;

We are looking forward to christening Rosie in a couple of weeks, please pray for her family and all those undertaking to support her in this pilgrimage of faith.

Among the recently departed, we remember with thanksgiving Amy King. Amy’s funeral took place on Thursday 16th May. There was standing room only at the funeral service in Penshurst and a gathering of loved ones in Fordcombe was very well attended. We continue to hold Neil, Isabel and Arthur in our prayers.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

19-May Margaret Bishop
Albert Thomas Firminger

20-May

21-May Harold Alfred Huntley
Joan Frances Allen
22-May Evelyn Violet Hook
May Victoria Bassett

23-May Eileen Vicary
John (Dick) Reardon

24-May Peter Richard Benton

25-May Eileen Alice Stanton

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing:

Courses:

Intercessions Training

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most Sundays’ prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.

Safeguarding Training

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online. We will begin at 1245pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend.

Orthodox spirituality and the Jesus prayer 
28 May 2024,10am to 3pm at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling More info

Events:

Quiet Day: We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for our use.

We will meet for coffee at 0930 and the focus will be different styles of prayer. Anybody who would like to join in a time of quiet reflection would be most welcome. Those attending the intercessions training may find this a helpful time to reflect. We plan to finish at 1230. Please let Lisa know if you would like to take part in this day rector@highwealdchurches.org.uk

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood

30 June 2024, 3:15pmpm at Rochester Cathedral More info

On which note, there is an exhibition: Women And The Church Of England -  A new exhibition at Lambeth Palace Library is marking 200 years of women’s ministry and agency. Open now until June 2024. Entry is free.  For full  details and opening times click here

Updates:

Ø  Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more

Ø  Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon.

Ø  And remember, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video

Mailing

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). Alternatively, you can always find it on our benefice website: https://www.highwealdchurches.org.uk/news

With every blessing for the Easter Season, which concludes this Sunday with our Pentecost services.

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter 05-11

To our Benefice Friends 

We are extending a warm congratulations to Lisa this week as she was formally licenced as our Area Dean for the Tonbridge Deanery. She has been careful to review her commitments so that she can take up this responsibility without overstretching herself. Her first Deanery Evensong as Area Dean was on Thursday (Ascension Day), which was a lovely occasion. It was a real joy for our choirs from across the deanery to sing together. 

Also on Ascension Day, the Church of England started the novena of prayer known as Thy Kingdom Come. You can join in this season of prayer using the free audio apps provided by the Church of England, containing audio for Morning, Evening, Day and Night Prayer from the booklet for all 11 days. The Daily Prayer for Thy Kingdom Come app has been updated with 2024 Sunday psalms and readings and the ability to set reminders for any or all the services at times that suit you. Download for Android or iOS

Speaking of prayer, we will be moving to a new booklet for worship services on Sunday week (Trinity Sunday). There’s still a little time to give us feedback on the booklet that we had during the Easter season, but as things stand the booklet for ordinary time will be along very similar lines. To read Click Here.  

Lastly the Church of England is putting on a webinar on moving our church towards net zero. If anyone has any enthusiasm for this matter, and is interested in attending this, please do get in touch, or to book directly Click Here.  

In this edition: 

Services: 

Sunday 12th May: Easter 7 

8am Holy Communion St John the Baptist  

10am Morning Prayer with Christening St Mary the Virgin 

Sunday 19th May: Pentecost  

10am Sung Holy Communion St John the Baptist 

10am Sung Holy Communion St Mary the Virgin 

Sunday 26th of May: Trinity Sunday 

8am Holy Communion St John the Baptist 

10am Sung Matins St Mary the Virgin 

5pm All Age Service, Fordcombe Village Hall 

Life Events  

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their Life Events: 

We have already had all of our May wedding and wedding celebrations but we continue to pray for William & Rachel, Rory & Hayley, Deborah and Neil; 

We are looking forward to christening Ronin this Sunday, please pray for his family and all those undertaking to support him in his pilgrimage of faith. 

Among the recently departed, we remember with thanksgiving Amy King. Amy’s funeral is at 1pm on Thursday 16th May at St John the Baptist in Penshurst. This is likely to be well attended. We recommend parking in the visitors’ area of Penshurst Place and walking through to the church. This is a five-minute walk. 

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time, we remember with thanksgiving:  

12-May 

Carol Young 

13-May 

14-May 

Edward (Ted) Dockerty 

15-May 

Thomas William Keen 

16-May 

Marjorie Kate Braiden 

17-May 

18-May 

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them. 

Learning and growing:  

Updates, and some upcoming courses and events in the wider diocese –  

Courses: 

Intercessions Training 

We are running a training session for existing and aspiring intercessors on Saturday June 15th. The training will run from 1100-1230 in Penshurst Church. Intercessory prayer is a feature of all services where we pray in Jesus’ name for one another and the world. It would be helpful to broaden our team of intercessors so that most Sundays’ prayers come from the congregation members rather than the clergy, as happens in Penshurst and Fordcombe, or a small handful of lay volunteers as happens in Chiddingstone. No previous training is needed just a desire to develop this part of your faith. Those who already pray will, I hope, be able to share their good practice with you.  

Safeguarding Training 

We encourage everyone who helps in church in a public facing way to carry out safeguarding training. For some posts it is a statutory requirement and for others a recommendation. On Saturday 15th June, after the intercessions training, we will be running a basic safeguarding course for those who would prefer to learn in person rather than complete the course at home and online; We will begin at 1245pm. The course takes around an hour to complete. This course is free and open to anyone who would like to attend. 

Quiet Day: We will be holding a quiet day on Tuesday 18th June at Selby’s Oast. On the Leigh-Hildenborough border. The focus of the day will be prayer. Many thanks to Barbara Lloyd for making her home available for us to More details will follow next week 

Orthodox spirituality and the Jesus prayer  
28 May 2024,10am to 3pm at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling More info 

 

Updates: 

  • Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more 

  • Don’t forget the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon. 

  • And remember, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video 

Events: 

 

A Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving - 30th anniversary of women ordained to the priesthood 

30 June 2024, 3:15pm at Rochester Cathedral More info 

 

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful).  

With every blessing for the Easter Season 

Lisa and Lindsay 

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Newsletter 04-26

To our Benefice Friends

This week, Lisa and Lindsay have been quite bureaucratic, attending myriad meetings, including Chiddingstone Parish Council’s AGM, Lisa’s first Deanery Chapter meeting as very-nearly Area Dean, and our first Joint Council of the new year (post-APCM).

These were all turning point meetings, in which we looked both backwards and forwards, garnering the wisdom of the last year and looking to set up the principles and processes that will carry us through the next twelve months.

We also had the first wedding of the season, which – as ever – a great celebration. We wish Eleanor and Matthew all the best.

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday 28th April: Easter 5

10am  Holy Communion                  St John the Baptist

5pm    All Age Service                     Fordcombe Village Hall

6pm    Compline                             St Mary the Virgin

Sunday 5th May: Easter 6

8am   Morning Prayer                      St Mary the Virgin

10am  Holy Communion                   St Peter’s, Fordcombe

Thursday 9th May: Ascension Day service

7pm    Choral Evensong                    St Paul's Church (Four Elms)

Sunday 12th May: Easter 7

8am    Holy Communion                    St John the Baptist

10am  Morning Prayer + Christening  St Mary the Virgin
4pm    Forest Church Rogation           Walters Green

Sunday 19th May: Pentecost

10am Holy Communion                     St John the Baptist

10am Holy Communion                     St Mary the Virgin

Life Events

In our prayers we hold those coming through our doors in the to mark their life events:

To be married/celebrate their wedding, William and Rachel, Rory and Hayley, Deborah and Neil

to be Christened, Ronin and Rosie will be baptised in May

Among the recently departed, we remember Mary Garrett, a former resident of Fordcombe with long connections to the church. Mary’s funeral is at Tunbridge Wells Crematorium on Monday at 11:30. We pray for her children, grandchildren, siblings, family and friends.

Also Amy King, who died following a tragic accident last week. We pray for her husband Neil and their children Arthur and Isabel. Amy’s funeral will be at St John the Baptist in Penshurst at 13:00 on the 16th of May.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember with thanksgiving:

28-Apr

Florence Dolly Lee

29-Apr

30-Apr

Hilda Firminger

01-May

Lorna Catherine Latten

02-May

03-May

04-May

John Denton

05-May

Peter Cyril Jackson

06-May

Sheila Wright
Pamela Wilkinson

07-May

Fredrick Huntley
Jane Eglatine Streatfeild
Veronica Watts

08-May
Patrick (Paddy) Charles Redmond Cooke

09-May

10-May

Beatrice Gandon
Anthony Newburn Wood

11-May

Timothy Alick Spencer Theobald

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing: 

Updates, and some upcoming courses and events in the wider diocese – 

Updates:

Archdeacon Andy has decided to move on from his role as Archdeacon of Rochester, later this year. Read more

All Clergy, Churchwardens, Parish Safeguarding Officers, and PCC Secretaries in the Diocese were written to last week about the new National Safeguarding Standards. There is a link to the new leaflet on our website, and you’ll see posters going up in our churches soon.

Lastly, we’re encouraged to share the new video highlighting the Church of England's ambition to be net zero carbon by 2030. Do watch, and consider whether you want to be part of this project bringing our beautiful Churches to Net Zero. Watch video

Events:

Easter Quiet Day at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling, led by Revd Joel Love - 4 May at 9.30 for a 10am start, the day ends at 3pm Find out more.

PLANS TO MARK WOMEN'S MINISTRY - This year is the 30th anniversary of the first women in the Church of England to be ordained as priests. To mark this special occasion, and to give thanks for all women’s ministry, a service of Evensong is being planned for Sunday 30 June, at Rochester Cathedral. More details will be shared soon, however, in the meantime, please do save the date. 

 

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). 

With every blessing for the Easter Season

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter 04-20

To our Benefice Friends

We hope that you have had a good week. With the children back at school and college the rush hour traffic is once again a feature. We hold in prayer all those preparing for study leave and exams in the weeks ahead.

Last Sunday the APCM meetings were held in Chiddingstone Village Hall. Should you have missed the Rector and Joint Council report being read in person it is available to read (or enjoy again!) Click Here.

The new Joint Council meets this coming Thursday at St Luke’s Parish Room at 7pm. This meeting will appoint JC roles, identify strategic priorities for the year ahead, plan meeting dates and sign off various statutory documents and declarations. Four positions on the JC remain unfilled: Benefice Treasurer; Rep for older people; Rep for Buildings and Rep for Children and Families. It will be much easier to move our Joint Benefice forward with a broad team of people representing different locations and age groups.  If you are interested in serving on the JC you can still be co-opted. If you have the skills and time to share, please will you write to Tabitha (JC Secretary) at the office email, and we can progress things. JC meetings are held bi-monthly with a wardens and clergy meeting in the opposite months to sort through operational matters in the parishes.

In last week’s meeting some people commented that they were not able to see all of the attachments with this weekly mailing. Please note that the attachments come in the form of links rather than as separate documents. Where an external document is referenced we will always add a ‘Click Here’ link for you to read further. This will usually take you to a separate webpage, however if we reference a downloadable document you may need to check the ‘Downloads’ folder on your computer if the file doesn’t open automatically. Any further issues or questions please contact Tabitha, who will be able to help.  

In this edition:

Ø  Services

Ø  Life Events

Ø  Learning and growing:

Services:

Sunday the 21st April: Easter 4

8am   Morning Prayer                 St Mary the Virgin

10am Holy Communion              St Peter

6pm   Evening Prayer                 St John the Baptist

Sunday 28th April: Easter 5

10am  Holy Communion             St John the Baptist

5pm   All Age Service                 Fordcombe Village Hall

6pm Compline                            St Mary the Virgin

Sunday 5th May: Easter 6                 

8am Morning Prayer                   St Mary the Virgin

10am  Holy Communion             St John the Baptist

Sunday 12th May: Easter 7/ Sunday After Ascencion

8am Holy Communion                St Peter

10am  Morning Prayer with Baptism     St Mary the Virgin

4pm   Forest Church                   Hartsland Farm, Walters Green Road, TN11 8HD

 

As we move into a new season, we begin our second year of our process of reflection regarding our worship together. This season’s booklet should be more familiar & comfortable than last. It aims to incorporate the feedback we’ve had, as well as the results of the more structured part of the process. You can find more Click Here, as well as a link to let us know what you think.

Life Events

In our prayers we hold those coming though our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

To be married, Eleanor & Matthew, later this week, William & Rachel, and Rory and Hayley early next month.

To be Christened, Ronin and Rosie in May.

Among the recently departed, we remember with thanksgiving Pamela Hazeldine and Betty Greagsby, whose funerals were held recently, and Mary Garrett whose funeral is on Monday 29th May at 1130 at Kent and Sussex Crematorium.

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember:

21-Apr

George Arthur Boakes
Kevin Stuart Boakes

22-Apr

Edith Gertrude Evans

23-Apr

24-Apr

25-Apr

Nora Cox
Colin John Blundon

26-Apr

27-Apr

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing: 

Updates, and some upcoming courses and events in the wider diocese – 

Updates:

Diocesan synod met recently. You can read the summary if you Click Here.

And in the wider Church Archbishop Justin reiterates his call for ceasefire in Gaza - "If nothing changes in the war in Gaza then famine is imminent." 

Events:

Come And Eat With Me Exhibition - Returning by popular demand, this installation at Rochester Cathedral takes as its inspiration Leonardo da Vinci’s The Last Supper painting. Eighteen artists from Kent participated in painting ‘icon’ inspired roundels portraying the twelve disciples, and other important characters in the life of Christ. On display on the Fenland Oak Table until 4 April. Click Here

Easter Quiet Day at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling, led by Revd Joel Love - 4 May at 9.30 for a 10am start, the day ends at 3pm to find out more Click Here

PLANS TO MARK WOMEN'S MINISTRY - This year is the 30th anniversary of the first women in the Church of England to be ordained as priests. To mark this special occasion, and to give thanks for all women’s ministry, a service of Evensong is being planned for Sunday 30 June, at Rochester Cathedral. More details will be shared soon, however, in the meantime, please do save the date. 

 

Courses:

'Let's end poverty' webinar

23 April (5.30pm to 6pm) hosted by Bishop Simon, aimed at people who want to take practical steps towards a better vision for the UK’s poor. Register to find out more.

Praying together – A course to encourage individuals to grow together in prayer – 25 April and 2, 9, 16 May at 7.30pm-9.30pm at the St Benedict’s Centre in West Malling. Find out more.

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). 

With every blessing for the Easter Season

Lisa and Lindsay

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2024 Annual Church Meeting - Rector’s Report

2024 Rector’s Report and summary of work by The Joint Council 

 It is now three years since the parish formed into The High Weald Benefice. It is two years since the Joint Council formed between Penshurst and The Chiddingstone Churches, with Fordcombe joining this governing body in January 2023. This annual report is the first reflecting on a whole year with one governance structure in place; all parishes are now represented by the Joint Council. There were five full meetings of the Joint Council, and other meetings where wardens and clergy discussed operational matters. There were also eight meetings between June and October, which formed a liturgy and music review process. 

Our meetings covered many topics: 

Administration: 

Tracy Craig started working for us in March as a temporary administrator. A heaven-sent employee, she helped us to transform our new administrative systems. Tracy is just about to qualify as a Solicitor, and we wish her well in her future career at Clark Kiernan in Tonbridge. 

Tabitha Haysom has joined us as our new administrator. She has very much hit the ground running, bringing many skills and talents from her previous role in PR in London. Welcome Tabby, you are making such a difference to us all. 

Money:  

The management of finances: scrutiny of accounts, agreements to spend on larger sums and applying for grants. There have been many cost savings on insurance, fuel and central purchasing of resources. More rationalisation will occur as the needs of each parish setting, and the Joint benefice as a whole, become clearer. Further details in the various financial reports.  

Buildings and Fabric:  

Our buildings are between 200 and 900 years old with many rules in place as to how we can maintain and use each space. Church roof repairs bit into our budgets, as has electrical work, work on heating systems, organs, clocks and upgrading the audio systems in St Mary’s and St Luke’s. Church yard maintenance costs are kept low by the work of volunteers but also need professional input for mowing, tree work and specialist tasks. We are mindful of our church’s duty to move our carbon footprint to net zero, and a working party will need to be developed to sharpen our strategy in this area. In Fordcombe, the quest for running water continues and a faculty has been submitted to plan for mains water to be connected to the church as the first stage in the provision of kitchen and lavatory facilities. Due to faculty rules, this is going to be a long process. A more detailed fabric report is available. 

Bells:  

A lot of work is being undertaken to plan and fundraise for refurbishment of the bells in St John the Baptist, Penshurst. Charles Fuller-Rowell and Janice Byrne are putting in many hours of planning work to launch this much-needed project.  

Safeguarding: 

This is a standing agenda item in all meetings. We have over the last year appointed new safeguarding personnel and encouraged many more people to undergo safeguarding training. We follow closely national and diocesan safeguarding guidelines. In a year when the national church has reported on past failings this aspect of our care for each other must be a top priority. 

Communications:  

The bringing together of four churches and three parishes has brought with it a certain amount of logistical challenge. A priority for us this year has been to develop a benefice house style for communications and to launch the new website. You may notice the new High Weald Churches logo on all of our publications and on our website. Huge thank you to Rev’d Lindsay for building and managing the website. Also grateful thanks to the office team and some eagle-eyed members who have worked hard to clean up databases of names to make us GDPR compliant. Our newsletter goes to several hundred people each week, please let us know if you would like to receive this. The hard copy village magazines have a long lead time and sometimes details need updating after publication but our weekly newsletter and website will always have the most up-to-date information for you. 

Mission and Worship:  

All decisions about services and the systems supporting them are scrutinised and signed off by the Joint Council. We are trying to build more resilient systems with longer-term planning, so that readings, hymns, and relevant rotas are available further in advance. At the moment these rotas run in a bi-monthly cycle and are shared via wardens, choir leaders and the office. Grateful thanks to Karen Franklin, who manages much of the logistics to ensure that services are fully staffed, and to the wardens who prepare the churches for holy worship.  

Music and Liturgy Review:  

During the summer months of 2023, eight open meetings took place to gather ideas about music and liturgy across the joint benefice to help the Joint Council review our service provision.  

The music review highlighted many areas of agreement and the desire to continue our choral transition with quality live music at services. The plans for a children’s choir were delayed by my illness last Autumn. But the good news is that I have two volunteers ready to launch this initiative in the new school year; once we have carried out the requisite safeguarding checks, risk assessments etc. Robert is an excellent pianist and Deborah is a semi-professional singer, both are excited about working with our children and are ready to help encourage secular and church music amongst local young people. This will be reviewed following Deborah’s wedding in mid-May. 

I remain open to suggestions about widening adult singing but will need someone else develop this initiative. I cover other aspects of music in the ‘thank you’ at the end of this document. 

The liturgical review has now entered its second year. Each liturgy produced builds upon the feedback given to us in the previous months. The website contains details explaining our liturgies and has a link for you to provide comments. We are also happy to receive constructive feedback by email so that any comments are recorded and attributable. I plan to hold a meeting after Pentecost to review the seasonal liturgy used from Advent to Pentecost. And I will hold a further review of the Ordinary Time liturgy later in the summer. The outcomes of these meetings will be fed back to the Joint Council and used to help perfect the final version of the liturgies. 

Outreach to Older People: 

Our 4th Sunday teas and evening prayer services in Fordcombe are attended by people from all three parishes. For some Fordcombe residents, for whom the church is inaccessible due to the lack of water and a loo, this is there only contact with church each month. In the summer months the evening prayers at Poundsbridge are well received and popular with congregations with two and four legs alike. 

In Penshurst and Fordcombe there are craft and knit and natter groups run by members of the church, which are bringing vital fellowship to many. The Pie and Pint Group and Village lunches in Fordcombe are not run by the church, but are attended by many who are part of the wider church family. Thank you to those of you involved quietly in these activities 

I would like to extend similar activity into the Chiddingstones, or work with your existing activities. I would be very grateful for some people to help integrate the church’s outreach into the Chiddingstone villages and beyond. This needs to be a priority in the months to come. 

Also, a very important part of my priestly ministry is home visiting. Parish priests are often accused of not visiting their flock, however most pastoral visits are carried out confidentially. I have several households that I visit and take communion to on a regular basis, and others where I visit on request. It has been my great privilege to visit the bedsides of several of our parishes in their last hours and days and offer final prayers and blessings and anoint them for their final journey. Thank you for trusting me at these tremendously sad times. It is a great privilege to serve you in this way. 

Younger families and children: 

Our children’s work is thriving. On my busy weeks, I lead worship with over 400 children and adults in our schools…the patterns is I lead worship every Thursday in Penshurst school; alternate Tuesdays in Fordcombe School and at least twice per short term in Chiddingstone. Rev’d Lindsay also leads a regular worship slot in Chiddingstone school. I have also been invited to work with the children the nursery school at Chiddingstone Castle on several occasions. I am a governor in each of our local schools. Now that I am being appointed as Area Dean I am stepping back from my roles as Chair of Governors in Penshurst and as the local RAF Cadet Padre. 

Forest Church goes from strength to strength, meeting up to 10 times a year. We are generally outside from February to October; and indoors for Christingle, The Nativity and during January. Children from all three local schools and other educational settings join us. Usually about fifty people attend each event with those on local farms the most popular. Although popular with children these events are open to all people. The only caveat being that some services take place on uneven ground and may not be suitable for those whose mobility restricts them. 

Services: 

Our service patterns include all varieties of worship found in the Church of England: from small 8am communions, large celebratory services on high days and holidays and a Sunday pattern of Eucharistic services interspersed with Matins, informal morning prayers and specific celebratory services for Mothering Sunday, Rogation, Harvest and Remembrance. The 5pm service in Fordcombe Village Hall goes from strength to strength and is particularly popular with our older people. Our evening service offer has broadened to include services at Poundsbridge Chapel and formal Evensongs which rotate through the Joint Benefice. 

Since mid-December the main 1000am service has rotated through the benefice churches. This temporary adjustment is likely to continue for a few more months. The Joint Council have ensured that the numbers of services planned are distributed fairly between parishes. Whichever parish does not have a 1000 service is provided with either an 0800 or teatime service on the same day (and sometimes both) to ensure we are still worshipping together in all parts of the parish. Although this document is to report on 2023 activities when this pattern impacted the end of the year; as I write this report in April the pattern has continued. 

Thank you for your forbearance and willingness to travel. Many people have commented on how much they have enjoyed being in each other’s company and churches.  

Our numbers attending church, in line with the rest of the church of England are down; but have held up well despite the adjustments to service patterns. Most Sundays 40-60 people gather at 1000 to worship with the combined choirs giving the services an upbeat feel. The evening services typically attract 10-20 worshippers with the 0800s having a loyal congregation of around a dozen in Penshurst and a smaller number in the Chiddingstones. However, our engagement in the community is ever growing and our numbers attending over the Christmas and Easter periods very encouraging indeed. The logistics of having over a thousand people through the church doors is an astonishing feat perfected in some case through decades of tradition. 

Occasional Offices: 

A big part of our parish life is our provision of occasional offices. To that end, there were 30 weddings across the benefice: 18 in St Mary’s,11 in St John the Baptist, and 1 in St Luke’s. There were 20 baptisms with 11 in St John the Baptist, 7 in St Mary’s and 2 in Fordcombe. There were 23 Funerals in 2023 across all of the parishes. It is our great honour to look after families at these sad times and we hold all the bereaved in prayer through our memorial books and intercessory prayer.  

The Joint Council sets the local fees for these services and collects statutory fees on behalf of the Diocesan Board of Finance. The Joint Council has overseen the work undertaken in our back office functions to improve the administrative systems supporting these events. Thank you to all of you who help us with front of house and verging duties for these events. 

Prayer:  

All we do as a benefice family must be rooted in prayer. I would like to offer particular thanks to those of you who pray for the life and work of the parish. Whether this is the form of intercessions, as part of the more formal prayer group or in a private capacity; to be upheld in prayer especially when times are challenging, is of benefit for all of us.  

I would like to broaden the numbers who pray the intercessions in our services. I will be running training in the next few months. This will be refresher training for those who currently pray and a chance for experienced intercessors to share their expertise with those just starting out.  

Thank you that you have the faith to pray and an expectation that God will provide solutions. Your prayers and kindness point others to the love and power of Jesus. 

Study:  

It was a pleasure to run our Lent Course in 2023. There is a house group that meets in Penshurst through the year on a Wednesday evening. I would very much like to grow other home and bible study groups and I would be happy to provide support and training for this.  

Thank you: 

We glorify God all the more when we work with all our different gifts to be a united family working in love. So on behalf of the Joint Council we offer thanks to: 

Our Church Wardens: elected locally, but appointed as The Bishop’s Officers. It is their job to support clergy and they hold legal responsibilities to ensure that the church fabric and governance complies with Canon Law. One warden per parish represents their nominating parishes on the Joint Council. 

A special thank you to Brent Muir, who is stepping down having served out a full term as warden, and sometime beyond. He has given seven years of time and energy to the role; often working unseen in his labours. This is my official thank you to you, Brent. I hope that you will be able to enjoy church more from the pews, rather than having to worry that there are jobs to do each Sunday. Also stepping down from his role as Joint Council member representative for buildings and fabric is Bob Golds. Thank you, Bob for your expertise and sage advice over the years. 

Our remaining wardens Angela Ventin in Fordcombe, Paul Allen in Chiddingstone and Karen Franklin in Penshurst are an invaluable source of support working hard to keep our churches afloat. Other wardens will be elected at the vestry meetings. 

Joint Council members: not mentioned so far, but who remain in post. Matthew Stevens as operations manager; Karen Franklin supporting the development and management of Mission and Worship. Angela Ventin also attends Deanery Synod on behalf of the benefice. Later in the year there will be a new diocesan synod forming and Iay representation on this body from within our church family would help ensure that the voices of smaller rural parishes are heard in the decision-making body of the Diocese. Rev’d Lindsay Llewellyn MacDuff represents our diocese on General Synod, the national decision-making body of the Church. 

 

Finance: huge appreciation also for John Menard, Stephen Medhurst, Paul Reeves, and Barry Lewis who offer us much expertise in matters financial. Thank you to Barry for many long hours setting up our management accounting system using Quick Books. It has made our financial lives so much easier.  

Further thanks to Charles Fuller-Rowell for working to claim around seven thousand pounds worth of VAT back for the benefice and to Barry Lewis who worked tirelessly to reclaim five years of Gift Aid not collected in The Chiddingstones. Some £12,000 has been received.  

The vacancy for Benefice Treasurer needs to urgently be filled.  

Our safeguarding officers: Linda Naidu and Wendy Ellis work to ensure our children and vulnerable adults remain well cared for. Thank you to Dennis Ward and Sarah Wickens for their time serving as Parish safeguarding officers. They both stepped down towards the end of the year, with Sarah continuing in post until Wendy took over in January. A Chiddingstone safeguarding lead is still needed. 

Verging and Back of House: many of you come to our churches for occasional offices. I am very grateful for those of you who act as vergers for weddings and funerals, enabling the clergy to focus on the leading of services whilst they care for practicalities and welcome guests. A special mention for Maggie Atkins who helps me in Penshurst and Simon and Christine who carry out much work in St Mary’s. To all of you who work in any capacity as sidespeople, offering music and singing, bell-ringing, practical help, hospitality; and pastoral support, thank you from the bottom of my heart.  

Musicians: organists and choirs. Thank you for your part in our worship. I appreciate your dedication. The music we experience in services is the result of much planning and rehearsing. We are blessed by a range of excellent organists and dedicated choir members, however new participants are always welcome. 

A special thank you to Robert Rees and The Friends of Penshurst Church for arranging the purchase of a new grand piano for the church, and for staging fundraising events including a spectacular music marathon. A series of recitals are planned for May - watch this space! 

Bells ringing: happens after much practice and with much skill. Thank you to Janice, Stella and their teams for their dedication. The Ring for The King, linked to King Charles III coronation, boosted our ringer staff and our towers are blessed with many new and improving ringers. 

Maintenance of buildings, fabric and church yards: so much happens that most people only notice when jobs are not done. Thank you to those who give their time and talent for free and to those local businesses who work for us at ‘mate’s rates’ to ensure we remain financially viable. 

Refreshments after services: Thank you for all of these roles, for making tea just how I like it and for the very high standard of cake!  

Flowers: Thank you to all who serve on our flower rotas. Please accept my apologies for me severe lily allergy which makes it impossible for me to be near St Mary’s during the Easter period and can complicate floral arrangements for weddings and funerals. 

The cleaning: cleaning of the churches is carried out by Christine and Simon at St Mary’s and by volunteers in all settings. Thank you for this ministry, which is often hard work and takes place in cold buildings. A special mention in dispatches to those who clean at Fordcombe, where there is no running water available. 

Magazines: many thanks to Robert Hunt of Chiddingstone, Maggie Atkins in Penshurst and Mike Gilbert in Fordcombe for your hard work compiling the church magazines and providing an important service, communicating with our congregation. 

Trusts and Donors: Thank you to all of you who contribute so generously to support the mission, ministry, and fabric of our churches. We are not naming all the (over one hundred) individual families, who make regular gifts, but your support is specially valued.  

For those of you who give regularly in the plate at collections, thank you. If we could encourage more people to give electronically or via a standing order or the Parish Giving scheme, we could claim more tax back and have a more stable income. Please talk to your local treasurer or warden for more information. 

Thanks also to Mrs Gwen Dennard for, once again, donating books of bible stories for every member of the reception class at Penshurst School. Your generosity is much appreciated. If anyone would like to sponsor a similar scheme in Fordcombe or Chiddingstone we would be delighted to hear from you. It is a really good witness to welcome our new families to church, to give them a gift, a proper welcome, and an invitation to worship at their mother church. 

Last but not least, thank you to the following organisations who have helped us with grants over the last year.  

Bentall Trust  

Bisset Trust  

Charities Aid Foundation  

Chiddingstone School  

Chiddingstone Parish Council 

Diocese of Rochester  

Drake Oil Syndicate  

Friends of Penshurst Church (now called Friends of High Weald Churches) 

Friends of Kent Churches  

The Fete committees of Penshurst, Fordcombe and Chiddingstones (2 events) 

Perry Family Trust Stewardship  

Stonewall Park Trust  

VEC Acorn Trust Additional  

May God bless all your generosity. We can only grow new disciples, build our funds and point others to God’s Kingdom if we work well together. We must turn our attention to some more systematic fundraising in the months ahead if we are to be sustained as a united benefice of churches. 

Rev’d Lindsay: My biggest thank you is to Rev’d Lindsay Llewellyn-MacDuff our Associate Priest who is a most excellent wing-woman. I appreciate her priestly pastoral ministry, amazing intellect and knowledge of all matters theological. We are very blessed as a parish to have you on the team and I am very proud to call you my friend. 

It is my great privilege to serve God here and I thank you all for joining me in our mission to grow God’s Kingdom in Penshurst, Fordcombe and The Chiddingstones.  

May God bless us all.  

Rev’d Lisa Cornell 

Rector of Penshurst, Fordcombe and The Chiddingstone Churches 

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Newsletter 2024 04-12

To our Benefice Friends

It was good to see those who came to the meetings on Wednesday, as we accomplished the preliminaries for our annual meeting. Do come along to the annual meeting on Sunday. It is a chance to catch up on what’s been happening over the past year and to think about our future plans. The agenda for the meeting was published two weeks ago, but is attached here for ease.

Our residual PCC meetings took place on Wednesday evening, but attendance was quite low. For good order’s sake we attach all of the financial reports shared in these meetings. The residual PCC accounts were recommended for ratification by those in attendance on Wednesday. The decision to ratify is taken at the short meetings of parishioners (formerly called Vestry Meetings) which precede the main APCM. The Joint Council reports financial reports also need to be ratified at the APCM. The accounts have been available for inspection for a while, but for good order’s sake we also attach them here for your perusal.

Lisa is back from her post Holy Week holiday. Although the rest and refreshment was much appreciated, her Labrador became very unwell during her time away. Lisa needs to take Dibley to a specialist vet this Wednesday 17th April and will therefore not be working. Please direct any urgent queries to the wardens or Benefice Office.

In this edition:

Services:

Sunday 14th April: Easter 3

8am   Holy Communion              St John the Baptist

10am  Sung Holy Communion    St Mary the Virgin

A slightly shorter service followed by our annual parochial meeting in Chiddingstone Village Hall.

Sunday the 21st April: Easter 4

8am   Morning Prayer                 St Mary the Virgin

10am Holy Communion              St Peter

6pm   Evensong                         St John the Baptist

As we move into a new season, we begin our second year of our process of reflection regarding our worship together. This season’s booklet should be more familiar and comfortable than the last. It aims to incorporate the feedback we’ve had, as well as the results of the more structured part of the process. You can find more here, as well as a link to let us know what you think.

Life Events

In our prayers we hold those coming though our doors in the to mark their Life Events:

To be married, Eleanor & Matthew, later this month, and to be Christened, Kit Alun-Jones, last weekend.

Among the recently departed, we remember with thanksgiving Pamela Hazeldine, Betty Greagsby and Mary Garrett

And among those whose anniversary falls at this time we remember:

14-Apr James Edward Everest, Ronald Victor Taylor, Ronald John Lorimer

15-Apr Arthur Johnson, Ronald H Theobald, Eveline Cynthia Saunders, Donal Keith Johnson

16-Apr Ethel Mary Hewitt, Edith Dolphin

17-Apr

18-Apr Dorothy Gardener

19-Apr

20-Apr Rachel Shirley Lloyd

Rest eternal grant unto them, O Lord, and let light perpetual shine upon them.

Learning and growing: 

Updates, and some upcoming courses and events in the wider diocese – 

Updates:

Diocesan synod met recently. You can read the summary here.

And in the wider Church Archbishop Justin reiterates his call for ceasefire in Gaza - "If nothing changes in the war in Gaza then famine is imminent." 

Events:

Come And Eat With Me Exhibition - Returning by popular demand, this installation at Rochester Cathedral takes as its inspiration Leonardo da Vinci’s The Last Supper painting. Eighteen artists from Kent participated in painting ‘icon’ inspired roundels portraying the twelve disciples, and other important characters in the life of Christ. On display on the Fenland Oak Table until 4 April. Find out more

Easter Quiet Day at St Benedict’s Centre, West Malling, led by Revd Joel Love - 4 May at 9.30 for a 10am start, the day ends at 3pm Find out more.

PLANS TO MARK WOMEN'S MINISTRY - This year is the 30th anniversary of the first women in the Church of England to be ordained as priests. To mark this special occasion, and to give thanks for all women’s ministry, a service of Evensong is being planned for Sunday 30 June, at Rochester Cathedral. More details will be shared soon, however, in the meantime, please do save the date. 

 

Courses:

'Let's end poverty' webinar

23 April (5.30pm to 6pm) hosted by Bishop Simon, aimed at people who want to take practical steps towards a better vision for the UK’s poor. Register to find out more.

Praying together – A course to encourage individuals to grow together in prayer – 25 April and 2, 9, 16 May at 7.30pm-9.30pm at the St Benedict’s Centre in West Malling. Find out more.

If you know anyone who would like to be added to our weekly mailing, do let us know (and similarly let us know if you’d like to come off, though we’d be sad to see you go). If you’d like to contribute to the work of the benefice, you can go to our parish giving page via the www.parishgiving.org.uk website (we’d be very grateful). 

With every blessing for the Easter Season

Lisa and Lindsay

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Newsletter 2024 03-30

On Holy Week and Easter, upcoming services, in memoriam, and watch this space for important APCM updates:

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